Hopeful Dating

It’s a Friday night and you’re driving home from that first date. He was nice, but you’re not sure if you want to go out with him again. You get home and surf your online dating website to see if there have been any more matches. Why does it have to be so hard, you say? Why, when I am completely able to create a career, have meaningful relationships with friends and family, and conscientiously live my life that makes a contribution to society,Why am I not able to find the one that I can spend the rest of my life with? When will this happen and Why I am I alone?

Dating these days is much different that in bygone eras, like say, the 80’s and 90’s, and even early 2000’s! It can be challenging to meet someone in an “organic” way, such as in the produce section or nearest book store, and you’ve probably already met those “I know someone else that is single” options that friends and family have fixed you up with. Online dating sites have their drawbacks as well, sometimes it feels like there are so many options, that it’s hard to focus on one enough to really get the clarification that they’re someone we want to invest time in. And this can feel pretty daunting. And very vulnerable. One of the hardest things can be to continue having the hope that it takes to continue being open to love and having the courage to do the things that are helpful in creating the love you want. There’s no training for dating!

As a woman who dated for years, looking for “The One”, I know how unique the path to love is in this modern culture, and how much of a roller coaster it can be. I also know that the level of vulnerability that this process includes is also the doorway for exciting, creativity, consciousness and strength. As your dating coach I will be your wing-woman in this journey. It is my intention to help you gather more awareness about what you’re bringing to the table, which attitudes and behaviors are serving you and which aren’t in this process in finding love. As well as importantly cultivating the love that is already in you and in your life. Others mean well by saying, “You just have to keep putting yourself out there” or “Once you stop looking, they will appear”. How do you do both???Anyone who’s dated in their 30’s and 40’s knows that its not that simple. Contact me to schedule a 15 minute consultation call to talk about one on one coaching. Online sessions available.

 

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